Getting the Right Fit

Mart here!

I wanted to talk a little about anatomical compatibility, and removing the expectation of how certain positions should look, or what positions are "required" to have sex. These are expectations we form thanks to adult films, media and culture.

Every combination of bodies will look different. Different heights, different proportions, different physical limitations (my old man knees don't do well with kneeling!). All these things can make sex look different person to person.

Next time you have a sexual encounter, I encourage you not to do what you think is "correct", but really work with your partner to find what is right for your combination of bodies. Prop up their butt with a pillow to get the angle just right, maybe you need to move to the edge of the bed and stand up, maybe you need to take breaks and adjust.

Play, focus on feeling and connection, stop performing.

Love,

Mart

Still from "Extender Play" video, available on OnlyFans